tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3543567497932789308.post5305607705219044832..comments2024-03-27T03:37:44.203-04:00Comments on THE CRAZY WISE WOMAN: Acceptable BaggageAmy @The Crazy Wise Womanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09874810213852628465noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3543567497932789308.post-8522403327576191752015-07-09T15:40:25.173-04:002015-07-09T15:40:25.173-04:00baby mamas was a deal breaker for me. that and bad...baby mamas was a deal breaker for me. that and bad teeth. nope nope nope.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3543567497932789308.post-3935744985995646292015-07-09T10:29:44.891-04:002015-07-09T10:29:44.891-04:00I definitely think what we've been through sha...I definitely think what we've been through shapes us. I know people who have been down a long shitty road and they're great people. I wouldn't consider them as coming with baggage. Anyone who deals with their shit doesn't have baggage. <br /><br />I can't deal with someone who isn't a hard worker. SMD @ lifeaccordingtostephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09884611147965544589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3543567497932789308.post-28022662329407053062015-07-09T09:03:14.400-04:002015-07-09T09:03:14.400-04:00I mean your list with the prison on it - is defini...I mean your list with the prison on it - is definitely a deal breaker for most!! We all have baggage like you said, it's how you frame it up and deal with it that matters!! xo, Biana -<a href="http://www.blovedboston.com" title="BlovedBoston" rel="nofollow">BlovedBoston</a>BLovedBostonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03378765629410526703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3543567497932789308.post-24124060218903483782015-07-09T07:02:43.827-04:002015-07-09T07:02:43.827-04:00i agree with your list! no job/car = nope. marri...i agree with your list! no job/car = nope. married more than 2x times? nope. hellion ex(s)? no way. mama's boy? nope (has to be severe because that means he will never stand up to his mom and likely his mom is a tyrant, no thanks). no ambition? nope.Kathy@MoreCoffeeLessTalkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11044005966979731361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3543567497932789308.post-2982336944367992642015-07-09T03:56:17.170-04:002015-07-09T03:56:17.170-04:00I've got one more to add to your list based on...I've got one more to add to your list based on a real-life event happening to someone I know: If you are arrested for childporn...10 counts of it...after 3 months of investigation. Dealbreaker. (I know it's a given to most rational thinking humans)<br /><br />Baggage - I'm glad to read that you are starting to see that it shapes the person that someone is today. I believe the key is definitely how someone has dealt with/or is dealing with their baggage. How open and honest they are about that baggage. Both my husband and I have a shit ton of baggage. But, we were willing to lay it all out, the good, bad, and extremely ugly, deal with some issues that must be dealt with and both really work for a better, happier, healthier future. <br /><br />I feel those that avoid their baggage and don't deal with it are emotionally stunted. I can say that because that was me. I avoided everything and didn't deal with any of my stuff that I needed to face for FAR too long. So, I was never read to be in or to give to a fulfilling, loving relationship.<br /><br />Good luck finding the right person whose baggage works with yours! It can happen. I'm living proof.<br /><br />Erin of TexErin-in-SydneyLandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09744003004126232764noreply@blogger.com