Well I guess this is the part where I get to tell you about me. About why I write this blog. Well it's mostly because I have some crazy shit flying around my brain like all the time and come to find out I am not the only one. I started writing this blog because I was going thru a divorce and so were some of my friends and we had a lot of things in common but the one that really struck me was that our ex's all said we were bat shit craaaazeeee, coo-coo for cocoa puffs, stark raving mad, wack jobs, lunatics and just generally irrational cranky bitches. Well guess what? It's not true.
I am just like many of you. I am a daughter, a sister, a best friend, a mother. I have a job, bills, struggle with my weight, date the wrong guys, watch too much TV, eat too much crap. and drink too much wine. For most of my adult married life I took care of everyone else and put everyone else before me. And then one day I didn't. That's when I went crazy apparently. I got sick and tired, fed up and run down and I said "I'm sorry... I just can't do this anymore". No, I really did say just that to my ex husband... I woke him up at 2:00 in the morning and told him in the dark of our bedroom that I was done. And I felt free... also I wanted to throw up... but I felt free!!!
Fast forward 2 1/2 years later and I am finally divorced. It's been a roller coaster of super fun self-rediscovery (yes I am in fact a pretty amaze person), job lost and found, almost financial ruin (the verdict is still out on this one), insane online dating, , a little