The I Don't Give a F*** Link Up

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

So I am going to admit that generally speaking of late my attitude about all things "serious" has been pretty piss poor. And that is because the more I stress and freak out the less good it does me. It messes with me in really weird ways and it doesn't solve the problem. It doesn't change anyone else who might be the problem. And it certainly does not make me happier. And at the core of what I want is just that simple... more happiness. The kind that makes you sing out loud and dance in your car happiness. You guys know what I mean. Moderate to increased happiness. NOT... I'm going to post on FB how gosh darn perfect my entire existence is happiness. Cause that shit is just plain annoying and it causes people to actually block you and/or get off FB.

In an effort to achieve this happiness I have found the IDGAF method to actually work quite well for me. And I mean this in the most positive way. I don't mean just blow off important stuff and say Eff it! What I mean is that there is a lot that we can't control, and trying to control it all just makes yours truly a tad bit nuttalicious. In other words don't sweat the small stuff or the stuff that really doesn't matter in the big picture, or the stuff that other people tell you that you should be sweating. So here is my current IDGAF list:

IDGAF that there is an ongoing pile of clean laundry on my bedroom floor for all of us to pick thru to find our clothes. I'm very bad at putting clothes away and yelling at my kids about it just doesn't matter that much to me. I'd rather take them out for ice cream than do laundry.

IDGAF that my house is  very mildly dusty and badly in need of a deep cleaning.. My maid sucks. She needs to be fired.
(That would be me)

IDGAF that people think it's weird that I am not interested in having a relationship... possibly like ever. Relationships are hard as hell. I am really into easy right now. Sorry not sorry. Unless I meet someone realllllly loaded.

IDGAF that everyone in my life thinks they know what my master plan should be when I don't even know. Why do I even have to have a plan?? I had a plan, it didn't work out so well. Now my plan is no plan cause everything happens the way it's supposed to anyway!

So that's my peace for this go round. Grab the button and tell me what you don't give a flying f*** about!

The Crazy Wise Woman

And if you can't link up today no worries, IDGAF. The link will be open  for a few days.



  1. ugh laundry. IDGAF about that either...but since i worked like hell to organize my closet and then was dumb enough to boast about it on my blog, i sort of have to keep it up therefore i put my laundry away with rage and contempt.

    Vodka and Soda

  2. Ohhhhhhhh laundry. I give you credit for at least getting the clothes OUT of the dryer - ours sit in there for at least 2-3 cycles before I give in and put them away, haha!

  3. I don't think you need a master plan at all, I say just go with the flow and enjoy the ride!

  4. Will the be open over the weekend?

  5. My advice is to get a groupon for a house cleaning. I am a lousy housekeeper myself and those deals are always so worth it to me!